Not all weddings are huge events, some times a couple decides to keep it simple and invite just a few people for a more intimate wedding. Shona & David had been together for a long time and decided it was finally time to actually get married. One thing I always tell couples when they’re planning their weddings is to do what makes them happy, after all it is their wedding. These guys wanted an intimate wedding at their home, spent a bunch of time fixing up their back yard and fortunately they managed to cover their patio to keep their guests dry as we dodged rain storms all day. We did manage to get outside for a few photos.
5 Tips for finding your perfect wedding photographer
I’ve seen a lot of articles about how to pick wedding photographers and I choose not to reference any. While some articles may have good points, as a wedding photographer myself I feel like I have a slightly different take on the matter.
Without being too self serving, I should tell you I started Firstlight Photography in 2002, after working for a local newspaper for a few years doing sports photography. At first we mostly did portraits, head shots and some events, soon we began to receive requests for wedding photography. Since these were referrals from some of our best clients it was tough to say “no”, although at first I and no intention of making this a part of my business. What changed? I LOVED IT! My wife and I decided that if we were up front about who we were, we’d attract people we wanted to work with and it worked. Now with over 10 years and over 250 weddings under my belt I still love it.
The following post will hit on some of the important points to consider when searching for your perfect wedding photographer. In future posts I will expand on some of these subjects.
#5: Do your homework.
No, you don’t have to learn anything about photography, there won’t be any tests, but I do suggest you spend some time thinking about what you want in terms of wedding photography and the style of photos you like. Spend some time brainstorming about what you really want captured on your big day, a list of family photo groups you want, special guests, special details and anything else you can think of that is important to you. Most wedding photographers will know the standard things to take photos of, but if you don’t tell the that your favorite Aunt will be flying in from Fargo and it would mean the world to you to get a photo with her, how would they know?
What do you need to know?
- What are the most important items for you to have photographed?
- What conditions will your photographer be working in? (dimly lit church or in bright mid day sunlight?
- Where will the wedding parties be getting ready? (same or different locations?)
- Will you be seeing each other before the ceremony for a “first look” photo?
- What styles do you love or hate? Do you like posed formal photos or more a more candid photojournalistic approach?
- Do you love or hate B&W photos?
Bottom line, you need to know what you want and let your photographer know what you are expecting from them. This communication is key to getting the wedding photos you really want.
#4 Find at least 3 photographers whose style you like.
So, where should you start? Google, Wedding Wire and Offbeat Bride can help you find photographers in your area. Facebook can be your friend too, BUT be specific if you post a question. Don’t say “looking for an affordable photographer on my wedding date”. What’s affordable? Bill Gates and I have very different ideas of “affordable”. I suggest saying, “Looking for a photographer in the $2000 range for our wedding date”. WARNING: Posting something like this on Facebook could get you HUNDREDS of responses. You’ve been warned.
Don’t limit yourself, try to pick out 3 photographers you think match your style and meet with them. Don’t freak out about budget yet and don’t cut people because they’re $500 over what you thought you wanted to spend. If your budget is $2,500, avoid photographers that charge $10,000, BUT don’t cut out a photographer that charges $3,000 on average. You haven’t written a check yet and it is in your best interest to make an informed decision. A little extra spent on photography can be made up on other items your guests will never notice, BUT if you scrimp on photography that choice may haunt you for a long time.
#3: Realize the right photographer may be more expensive than you thought.
Experienced wedding photographers aren’t cheap and, trust me, wedding photography isn’t something you want to trust to the $500 Craigslist photographer or your uncle Bob that has a cool camera. Weddings can be very stressful, you are on a tight timeline, at the mercy of many other people. You have to get it right the first time. You are relying on your photographer to record your wedding day because when the the party is over, cake’s been eaten and the dust settles the photos tell the story of one of the biggest days of your life.
Besides the demands of the actual wedding day there is an incredible amount of time that goes into planning, coordination and post production. Just to go through the photos taken and get them ready for previews takes 3-4 hours for every hour of wedding photography. We also do our best to help our couples plan out their big day and use our experience to help them with planning and often suggesting other trusted vendors for them.
Bottom line, it is worth spending a little extra on a good wedding photographer, there are a lot of other places you can cut back a bit to reduce costs and nobody will ever know, but if your wedding photos don’t turn out that will stick with you.
#2: Don’t get lost in the details.
I get asked a lot about what kind of equipment I use and about my editing software, but Ive found that when I actually start telling clients most of the time their eyes glaze over and they don’t have a clue what I’m talking about. You might also have preconceived notions about what’s good and what’s not. Would it matter if I told you that I show with Nikon, Canon or Sony? Sure, equipment matters a little. If your photographer is shooting with the Costco special with the $100 kit lens it doesn’t mean they can’t take great photos, but it does mean that they will be limited in certain situations.
Things you DO need to know:
- Do they have the right equipment & experience to shoot in the conditions they will face at your wedding?
- Do they have backup equipment in case a something breaks? (This happens)
- What happens if you have to move your wedding date or cancel?
You want to make sure that your photographer has the equipment and experience to capture your photos on the big day, part of this is doing your homework and knowing the conditions they’ll be shooting in and talking with them about those conditions.
Typically wedding vendors do not refund deposits / retainers for their services, especially as you get close to the wedding date. The one big exception that I make is for military couples when they are deployed or moved. All we ask for is to see a copy of the orders and a we refund their deposit because we understand that it is totally out of their control.
#1: Make sure you like your photographer!
On your wedding day there are two vendors you really want to have a great relationship with (3 if you have a wedding planner / day of coordinator), your DJ and your photographer. The having a good relationship with the DJ will help them get to know your personality and improve your communication with them which will make the reception the event you’d want it to be.
When looking for a photographer keep in mind that we’ll be with you for pretty much the entire day, we typically spend more time with you than anybody else at the wedding. As a photographer our job is to document your day and to capture your personality and if we irritate you that will show in your photos.
We’re always happy to find a convenient middle ground to meet at with potential couples for coffee to go over their plans, get to know each other a little and see if we’d be a good fit for each other. This is something you can’t get a feeling for over emails or from a web site, so whenever possible set aside an hour or so to meet with potential photographers.
David and Carolyn wanted to have a pretty low key wedding so they could hang out with their friends and family. So often we shoot weddings and it is such a big production that at the end of the night the couple are exhausted and don’t hardly remember the day because they were so busy and worried about what was going to happen next. Often they don’t even get a chance to eat the dinner after they spent tons of time picking out a catering company. David and Carolyn had a really great wedding, got to hang out and really spend time with the people closest to them while still having a great time. David Sader from Absolute Music provided the music and provided a great mix of background music and fun stuff to dance to. To top it all off, while the weather looked like it was going to be nasty all day, it cleared up and was wonderful just as everybody started showing up for the wedding. Great music, a wonderful couple and an amazing setting all contributed to one of my favorite weddings this summer.
Jeff & Dustin are a really fun couple. They’re getting married in the back yard of their new house, so wanted to do their engagement session in the new house. I found out that Dustin is a bit of a YouTube celebrity and a friend of ours calls him “my favorite YouTube Beauty Guru”. Check you his YouTube Channel – click HERE.
We were dreading the weather forecast, it called for rain and was pouring on my way to meet them. By the time we met it was down to a light drizzle and a few minutes into the shoot it stopped and we had some blue skies by the end. This has happened a few times, we always head out in hopes of dodging our Pacific NW weather and more often than not we luck out.
Kyle & Jamie had a very intimate wedding ceremony at Clearwater Resort & Casino in Poulsbo, WA with their best friends & family. They love beer so much that rather than a blending of the sands ceremony during the wedding they made a Black & Tan for the couple and wedding party to share. Once they were married there was a brunch followed by a tour of breweries in the Poulsbo area. It was a first for us and a LOT of fun for everybody involved.
Bainbridge Island Brewing
Cindy & Jerold tied the knot this summer on the grounds of a Summer Camp on Fox Island, WA. Where’s that? Out past Gig Harbor, we’d never been there either, but it was a great venue. This couple was so in love, the groom did a happy dance when he was told he could kiss the bride! Why on earth is there a photo of a dog hanging out in the grass? He’s the camp dog and made him self at home during the wedding, even hanging out with the bride during the ceremony.
Amy & Paul got married in a very nice back yard wedding… a really big back yard.
Some of our favorite photos taken at a recent wedding at Heartland Ranch in Graham, WA. We love this venue, not just because of the great locations for photos, but the friendly staff really go out of their way to help out.
We were beyond thrilled when Refinery29, a fashion and style website, contacted us for a feature one of our amazing wedding couples – Hally and Lou. Both were gorgeous tattooed brides that chose dresses to highlight their artwork. This post is a true testament that the perceptions around tattoos are changing. No more cover up makeup. Brides are proud to show off their ink!
The Refinery29 post highlights 10 beautiful brides who refused to cover their tattoos up. We were so pleased they let us photograph their big day!
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About Firstlight Photography
We are a husband and wife duo that is so very fortunate to do what we love. The most amazing people choose us to photograph their engagement and wedding day.
We offer a wide range of services and products and custom design each package. How does this work? It is as easy as 1,2,3.
1. We’ll meet over coffee or Skype and review your wedding ideas
2. With you, we craft a wedding schedule that helps you design a package
3. Several weeks before your wedding we contact you and make any necessary updates
Throughout the time leading up to your wedding please feel free to contact us with questions or referral requests. We’ve been part of hundreds of weddings so we are prepared and always happy to lend a hand.
Our photography studio is located between Seattle and Tacoma. We cover Washington, Oregon and California but that is just the beginning. You can book us for your destination wedding or event.
In addition to wedding photography we also provide photo booth services, corporate photography, lifestyle photography and boudoir/pinup photography.